Rasanya lama sudah blog ini tak di jengah, sibuk dengan tuntutan kerja tambahan pula hujung tahun banyak kerja yang nak di siapkan untuk di hantar. So kebetulan berpeluang hari ni sempat juga menjengah dan membaca komen-komen yang di tinggalkan. Terima kasih banyak-banyak k.
Dan kalau ada yang tak berkenan apa yang saya coretkan disini ribuan kemaafan saya pohonkan
saya rasa tak salah apa yang saya tulis, menulis apa yang saya rasakan. Mungkin salah satu cara untuk saya meluahkan rasa, dan selagi tak menyentuh isu2 sensetif tak menjadi masaalah pada u all sebagai pembaca.
Kalau ada yang terasa pun itu cuma orang yang bersangkut paut saja rasanya. Bila cara berterus terang tak nampak jalan penyelasaian mungkin menulis juga salah satu cara yang baik untuk berterus terang dan mungkin juga ianya sesuatu permulaan untuk perhubungan yang lebih baik. Siapa tahukan??
Dan jujurnya saya memang mengharapkan dari pihak mereka membaca dan cuba memahami apa yang saya rasa selama ini. Jika cara berdiskusi tak menampakkan hasil mungkin dari cara penulisan begini mereka akan cuba memahami.
Dan jangan ada salah faham mengatakan tulisan saya berunsur dendam tidak sama sekali, Insyaalah kemaafan yang saya hulurkan seikhlas hati, saya cuma nak mereka yang "terasa" tu belajar memahami apa yang tersirat jauh di lubuk hati ini.
Anyway siapa pun anda thanks for the good comment. Mungkin saya lupa bermuhasabah diri saya untuk melihat perkara ini seperti mana anda melihatnya. Thank you so much.
Sunday 20 December 2009
Tuesday 8 December 2009
Embracing Imperfection
My dear friend,Hope you will enjoy reading this story.
"Burnt Toast"
A beautiful story to ponder upon… if everyone in this world learn to accept others’ mistakes and forgive each other… life will move smoothly.
A story from a girl.
"When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.
On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!
Yet all my dad did was reached for his toast, smiled at my mom, and asked me how my day was at school.
didn't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember Watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and ate every bite!
When I got up from the table that evening, I remembered hearing my mom apologized to my dad For burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burnt toast.'
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!' You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.'
What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of GOD. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the basis of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!! "
"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket but into your own." See through God's eyes and feel through God's heart And you will appreciate the value of every soul including yourself.
God bless you all richly
"Burnt Toast"
A beautiful story to ponder upon… if everyone in this world learn to accept others’ mistakes and forgive each other… life will move smoothly.
A story from a girl.
"When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.
On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed!
Yet all my dad did was reached for his toast, smiled at my mom, and asked me how my day was at school.
didn't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember Watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and ate every bite!
When I got up from the table that evening, I remembered hearing my mom apologized to my dad For burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burnt toast.'
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!' You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.'
What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of GOD. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the basis of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!! "
"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket but into your own." See through God's eyes and feel through God's heart And you will appreciate the value of every soul including yourself.
God bless you all richly
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